
I touched on few obsessions/bad habits, but how about soap making? When do I cross the line into obsession? I have a tendency toward obsessions..there was the gardening obsession, the dried flower and wreath making obsession, the running obsession, and now the soap obsession. I started off making soap for the extended family as gifts and what-not, then to friends, then to co-workers...well, now I was spending so much, I had to start charging, which people were perfectly happy to do. Since there are so many soaps colors, scents, and techniques, I must try them all. I figured I better start an Etsy shop (not doing very well) and sign up for a few craft shows. I've spent a ton on materials...molds, liners, fragrances, equipment, etc. with up to now, very little return. I hope to sell well at the craft shows I've chosen. If my soap sells well, I can make more soap. If it doesn't, I'm stuck with a ton of soap and wouldn't feel justified in making more. When trying to figure out when my hobby, passion, or past-time is turning obsession-ish, I ask myself the following:
1)Is it affecting work/life balance?
Well, a little bit...my husband's been complaining a little, but likewise, I complain about the three times a week band practices and two times a weekend gigs. I justify that I make soap to have something to do when I'm a band widow. As far a work balance...I definitely would like to work less and make soap more, but my day job pays substantially better and I like that to!
2)Is it draining my bank account?
Definitely no, even though it seems like I have. I'm lucky that financial management has always come easily to me. Actually, that should be on my obsession list too since I went through a financial management dark period when I was separated and divorced for three years. BTW...married the same guy again! I track all my spending and set financial goals. I'm frugal and search for deals. I wanted to start slowly and buy all my start-up supplies on current income and never savings. I bought Soapmaker 3 early to track my inventory and batch costs.
3). Do you think of soap 24/7? Do you dream about screwing up soap?
Well, yeah...
So, am I obsessed? Yeah, probably, but one thing I do know, as I approach 49 years of living with Cindy, is that I eventually find a comfortable balance. I ran for 7 obsessive years, before I said, "Hey, running 50 miles races is kind of crazy!" Now, I'm a recovering maintenance runner logging a sensible 15 miles a week. I still garden, but it's no longer necessary to start 1000 seedlings in my basement. It's a curve, I guess, of which I'm still on the upswing.
The Mint-Chocolate Chip soap looks great, Cindy! It must have been fun making it with your daughter. BB's Hot Cocoa FO is amazing, and I'll bet it's great mixed with some spearmint. I love your swirl - I just tried the Celine Swirl for the first time, too, and I'm anxiously waiting to cut the loaf to see the inside!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jenny! You must share your Celine swirl. My daughter is very helpful to me, especially when it comes to blending colors...she's my color consultant.
ReplyDeleteThanks Jenny! You must share your Celine swirl. My daughter is very helpful to me, especially when it comes to blending colors...she's my color consultant.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great soap Cindy, I love the minty color you and your daughter achieved! I bet it smells AMAZING!
ReplyDeleteFor sure...it's a drooler soap!
DeleteFor sure...it's a drooler soap!
DeleteIt was funny reading about your obsessions! I could relate to most! :-) I think a little obsession is needed to be really good at something.
ReplyDeleteChristmas is coming up and it would be a good time to unload your inventory. Look for people with a long list of names to give gifts to. :-)